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Exercise

Today, I went lap swimming. I had never done it before, nervous because I had never learned “true” swimming. Unlike many peers I had growing up, I never learned to swim via a team or lessons at the local pool.  My mother, a former lifeguard, taught me all I know at Devil’s Lake – a gorgeous spring fed lake in southern Wisconsin known for its towering bluffs with excellent trails and rampant swimmers itch in the early summer.  I grew up lake swimming which makes the concept of lap swimming intimidating – I don’t know if I had ever swam in a straight line before.

Still, I was determined to get myself to move today.  I don’t know what is about exercise, but for me it comes in fits. I love it, I truly do.  I’ve worked out daily, from classes to outdoor bike riding, and I feel damn awesome. I love that sore, overworked feeling.  And yet, when I miss a day, I find I miss two. Then I miss three.  The next thing I know I haven’t truly worked out in ages and I’m feeling lumpy and ornery.

Yesterday, I didn’t move at all and I had no excuse. The day was beautiful, I had no distractions, I could have done any number of great activities.  I also didn’t write.  I found myself playing games, reading, watching movies, dabbling on facebook, doing everything I really didn’t even want to do.

So, today, I forced myself to exercise.  But not only that, I forced myself to do something new, to get a little risk, the added oomph to make it good. I swam laps.  I did every number of absurd strokes but I did for 30 minutes.  When I left, I felt amazing.  I guarantee I will be back tomorrow.

Now, I’m at Starbucks and I’m hunkering down to do some serious writing.  So what’s my point?  We need to practice, we need to exercise. What I said about exercising I do the same for writing – if I skip a day, I skip a week. It takes a routine to make it feel truly natural.  You’ll read it everywhere -writers try to write everyday.  You need the habit to truly make it a part of your life.

And you want to know the best part?  With the routine, with the exercise, you can’t help but get better at it.  And that feels damn good.

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Change your venue

As an unpublished writer I hesitate giving out writing advice. Still, I consider myself a writing veteran from the sheer amount of words I’ve put on a page/web page (I should really count those up some day… 12 NaNos plus 24 years of journals?) and I can tell you one thing that’s always worked for me.

Change your venue.  Go write… somewhere.  I have my hot spots – the Union Terrace in Madison, the local Starbucks (though that’s more a lack of small coffee shops than choice), even my couch.  Still, I do it different with some common elements. I have my computer and my music.  But my scenery changes. I can watch people, I can look at the sky, the trees.  Sometimes I take in a lot of caffeine or, today, a couple of beers.

Whatever you do, get a feel for your writing from different angles.  It’s the best shot you have at seeing it from someone else’s eyes.

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Sometimes time gets in the way

At the end of June, I quit my job.  I walked into work as a Career Advisor for unemployed people in northern Cook County, handed in my resignation, and less than two weeks later I was breathing sweet, fresh, free air.

I left because I wasn’t happy there.  There were a lot of reasons why I wasn’t happy there and I’ll spare you the pages and pages of rants I have in my journal.  Let’s just say, I loved working with the clients, but the “system” had its… quirks.

So, now joining the ranks of those unemployed shmucks, I decided to have myself a good old fashioned summer vacation.  My husband is awesome and decided to support me as I job searched and focused on something I’ve never focused on before – writing.  Out of nowhere I had hours and hours available to me where I could sit, write, figure out my story and create something wonderful and beautiful.

However, have you ever had a lot of time on your hands?  Ever noticed thinking you have “all day” to do something is exactly when you never get it done? I’ve been thinking this whole time about how much time a month is, how I am so motivated during November and I’ve pounded out novels around college and jobs and just life in general.

But, not halfway through July, I’ve only “completed” about 3/4 of Viva Las Vegas… and that’s just with my own editing. I’ve had one other set of eyes on it for suggestions and only for the first 1/4 of the chapters.  Still, I’ve made good strides and can honestly say I’ve worked on my story almost every day.

Yet, you know what’s worse?  Reaching that halfway point and all of a sudden having what’s left of your time disintegrate before your eyes.  When I quit, I told myself I wouldn’t start work again until August.  My husband and I have a road trip planned for a friend’s wedding and I thought it would work out well if I just didn’t work until after that.  But I’ve already turned down one offer to keep looking and I just got another one in today – and they want me in July.  I haven’t decided anything yet but it looks like my dreams to write, and to have a legit summer vacation, and finally over.

Crapola.  Why did I waste the first half of July?  PS – did I mention this job offer would require me to go back to school again for my graduate degree?  And it’s an hour and a half commute? Which means my husband and I will need to move up our plans to move closer to the city? Oh yeah, getting published will be totally easy with that on my plate.

Then again, if I’ve learned anything from NaNo – less time, more productivity.

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Step One: Writing

This may not seem like such an astonishing fact, but the first step to getting published is to write – or so I’ve been told.  So that’s what I’ve been doing recently, actually that’s what I’ve been doing my whole life.

I’m one of those born writing individuals.  I still have my notebook with my first story, “The Spooky Man.” It’s about a ghost-like man who somehow owns his own house down the block and gets his jollies by kidnapping children.  You can expect it on the big screen soon.

The first landmark of my progression from casual to more structured writing was the discovery of Reading.com (now, Writing.com).  It’s a wonderful site that promoted the sharing and critique of writing through an online community.  I’m still involved on that site and sport a portfolio that dates all the way back to 2001.  The vast majority of what I have on there is total crap but the website has served as a touchstone for me, a way to get back into a writing community whenever I feel the urge.  I owe a lot of my progression as a writer to the website and recommend it highly.  I’ve learned so much about writing but even more about critiques, self promotion, and thick skin.  Put your stuff on the internet and you’ll learn a lot.

The next, and most significant step in my writing process, has been NaNoWriMo (If you don’t know what this is, discover it. Now. NaNoWriMo.org). My extremely good friend, at the time just an online acquaintance, persuaded me to join in on NaNo four days into November when I was in 8th grade.  It was unreasonably exciting.  I threw myself into writing a story that was miles longer than anything I had ever before created.  What came out I still treasure, horrific as it may be (just to give you an idea, I didn’t yet understand the necessity for quotation marks or paragraphs).  I completed the required 50,000 words on November 28th – plenty of time to spare.

NaNoWriMo, for me, has been a requirement for writing.  This year will be my 13th year dong NaNo and I’ve won every year but one.  I don’t have the problem a lot of other writers seem to, I can actually sit down and write.  I don’t correct myself I don’t get writer’s block, and I am not consumed with the idea of good vs. bad.

I think this it the most crucial step for anyone who wants to get publish.  You aren’t going to get anything sold if you don’t put it on paper first.  A good idea means nothing if you can’t share it.  You’ll hear it time and again from people who are published and love writing – Chris Baty, Natalie Goldberg, Julia Cameron, Jerry Cleaver, and so many more.

So, I’ve been writing.  On my crusade to get published I’ve chosen my most recent NaNo novel, titled Viva Las Vegas.  It’s a light, chick lit book with hot men and sexy ladies. It was meant to be fluff but I ended up really enjoying it and now it’s evolved into something that, while still full of sexy people, had a bit more heart to it. When I stopped writing it in November I had more or less completed the story.  The last few chapters were more mismatched scenes than a true series of events culminating in a story.  Over the past two weeks I’ve buckled down and gotten serious.  In what has been simultaneously an editing and new writing extravaganza I’ve spent many hours at Starbucks and I’m seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

But, before I can even think about what’s happening next, I need to concentrate on this first, huge step. I need to write something to be published.

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Writing is like riding a bike

Even if you aren’t in the mood
once you’re going it just feels write
the more you practice the better you are
hills suck
but the downward slopes are worth it
sometimes people get in the way
keep shifting gears
it’s hard to gain back lost momentum
forget about breaks and brakes

Breathing helps.

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Phonies

Phonies

I read this on postsecret.com today.

It’s hard to dedicate yourself to an idea. For me, writing has already been a tide in my life – there have been times that I had written every day. I’ve also gone 11 months straight without sketching a single word outside of my journal. I’ve made it a habit to put writing aside to my life.

I keep coming to the word “failure” as a point of inspiration. I can’t let the mountain of daunting tasks (finishing my novel, editing my novel to the point of “completion,” marketing my novel, etc) deter me from trying. I’ve decided to make it happen. I’m going to use July to make it happen.

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My Road Less Traveled.

I believe in a number of things when it comes to writing.

1) Writing is easy.

2) Writing is best done alone, and with friends.

3) Thinking about writing creates writing.

4) Anyone can be published.

With those basic principles in mind, I thought I’d start a blog.  With my new life event of hating my new job and being unable to get a new one without committing resume suicide, I started some soul searching and came up with a glorious plan.  After 13 years of novel writing and a life-time of whatever writing, maybe I would actually do something with my writing.  It seemed both easy, and impossible. I had always thrown away the idea of being an “author” and making a career out of writing.  I knew what a steep hill that would be and, honestly, I didn’t really want to do the work.  I have such a fun, light feeling about my writing and I didn’t want to ruin it by getting all serious.  But, with a move to depressing suburbia land and working 8-5 at a hopeless, depressing State run organization hell bent on making my head explode every day, I needed a serious outlet.

So, my spring has sprung.  I’m finally going to take that step, just to see what pans out.  I’m going to jump head first into the pool and get myself published.  Depending on how that whole experience goes, we’ll see if I can make it my day job.

Now, back to the list.

1) Writing is easy – to anyone out there who disagrees, needs to understand I’m not talking about quality. Good writing is trickier but here’s the amazing and wonderful thing about good.  It’s subjective.  And as much as we try to pretend there are certain levels of good, certain norms we have to follow, it’s really all just mush.  I’ve written some things I think are wonderful, but others think are crap.  I’ve written some stuff I think is crap, that others apparently like.  We’ve all read published books out there that blow out sock off and others that make us wonder what’s wrong with the world.  The point is that there are people out there who love The Great Gatsby and people who love 50 Shades of Gray.  What’s my point? Make it grammatically correct and we all have a shot at the big time.

2) Writing is best done alone, and with friends – I’ve written both alone and with friends.  They are both awesome.  You should try them all.

3) Thinking about writing creates writing – For many years I have written only during the month of November. I’d sit down for NaNoWriMo, punch out a novel, maybe edit a bit here and there throughout the year, and I’d be done.  Not a single other aspect of writing creativity (unless you count journaling and writing letters, which I don’t).  In contrast, I’ve been on this publishing idea for about a week and a half now.  I’ve been reading non-stop for months, I checked out all these books from the library about writing, I went to Lit Fest in Chicago last weekend, and I’m headed to a writing workshop tomorrow. Today, I went for a bike ride and came back with a poem.  A poem.  Do you know how long it’s been since I wrote a poem?  It only came out of me because I had been making it a practice to think about writing.  It was a wonderful surprise.

4) Anyone can be published – This make a wonderful loop with point number one.  Obviously, there is self publishing, but aside from there in the world of “real” publishing, it’s all about editing and persistence.  I know there are people about there who will publish my novels, I just need to find them.  I’ve read a lot of wonderful books in my day and I’ve read a lot of crap books in my day.  I think, right now, I’m somewhere in between.  I’d love to be more toward the good end, and I’ll try my best, but for now I’m just going to run with it and see what comes out.

And that’s why this is my road less traveled.  Thirteen years of writing and I finally am going to try moving to the next step.

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